Gay & Unloved? Waiting for Someone to Love You? Here's Why That Never Works

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Why Someone Will Never Love You Enough… Gay Men Version"
???? Are you constantly seeking love from others, yet still feeling unseen, unfulfilled, or unworthy?

In this video, Russell shares a powerful truth: no one will ever love you “enough” until you learn to love yourself first.
As gay men, we’re often conditioned to search for validation outside of ourselves—through hookups, dating apps, or relationships that mirror our wounds. But healing begins within.

✨ Discover why lasting love doesn't come from chasing it—but from becoming it.
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Have you ever felt like love from others just wasn’t enough? How did you start shifting that story?

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0:00 – The Lie We’re Taught About Love
Why we grow up believing love will come from someone else.

0:44 – Love Made Me Anxious, Not Whole
How relationships triggered insecurity instead of peace.

1:36 – What I Thought Love Was Supposed to Be
The fantasy we carry—and how it leads us to disappointment.

2:25 – The Trap of Emotional Dependence
When your happiness relies on someone else, love turns into fear.

3:18 – The Shift: Love Comes From Within
What changed everything for me—and how I stopped chasing.

4:56 – Becoming the Love You’ve Been Seeking
Why self-love is the key to peace, connection, and wholeness.

5:19 – Join the Journey ????
Why I created this channel—and how we’ll grow together.

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